Negativity

[Steve]

This post is not directed at anyone specifically. Theres so much trash personal attacks on forums. We see the worst of it at GG and GF with no moderation.

Seriously, grow up. The personal vendettas and junk are from people with miserable lives. How do I know? Because nobody happy would waste time on such pathetic pusuits which come from envy and not being happy with their own life. So instead of dealing with and being responsible for the betterment of their life, they find it easier to direct frustrations at other people. In other words, blame others for their own failures. Its easier, right? Easier to believe that other people are the problem, instead of yourself.

Its impossible to hate someone without destroying part of your own life. Im not saying love and cuddles for everyone. Im saying you will benefit yourself more if you just do your own shit, instead of focusing so much on what other people are doing. Granted some peoples lives are already screwed so they dont mind screwing themselves more to give others a hard time. But most of the time if you spend time hating someone, you damage yourself far more because the person usually either doesnt know or doesnt care, while you waste a lot of time on it instead of making your own life better.

The news is one day youll get old, unless you get hit by a bus. And youll reflect on your life and the wasted time. It will happen all through your life that you learn the bullshit you think is important now, is actually just shit.

Again im not saying love and cuddles for everyone. But i am saying if you spend your days hating and bickering, you are wasting your own valuable time. You will have a far better life by:

- Minding your own business. Direct your attention to the changes you want in your own life.
- just avoiding people you dont like, instead of going to war
- recognizing when your own feelings of inadequacy and failure are actually your fault, and not other peoples fault. So man up and work in it.
- recognizing everyone makes mistakes. But not everyone puts pride aside and learns, and then grows.

Its really simple stuff. But you know just a few years ago I wasted time on bullshit too. Not for reasons above. For injustice of lies. But now I smile knowing comparatively I dont give a shit now. I leave it at the truth is easy to find. Here, have a free roulette computer and test, or piss off and believe junk. But thats my situation, and I bet I dealt with far worse than anyone on the forums.

You cant control everything that happens. But you can adjust your attitude. And not everyone will reciprocate towards you, so f**k those ones. Enough people will reviprocate so you see the value. Those are the people deserving of your time. And the f**kers will be insignificant.

Just for one week, observe your emotions, actions and attitude. And change your perspective. I hope at least one person gets something from this. How else can I say it? Just try showing respect. Be honest with yourself and others. Forget fears. You have no idea how much fear plays a part. Be yourself. Dont put up walls. Then you'll better understand what Im talking about.

[Turner]

I feel a cuddle icon is coming next to the finger and jizz ...

but seriously...nice post Steve

[nowun]

Excellent post.

[Steve]

cuddles? geez why not give the forum a pink theme? totally gay. Jizzing is far less gay.

Disclaimer: I have nothing against gay people, and actually have lots of gay friends who would not at all be offended.

[Turner]

Jizzing is far less gay.

"The whole subject just leaves a nasty taste in my mouth"
Dame Edna Everage

[Steve]

eww 

[nottophammer]

Finger and jizz to Mr J
It's abit of fun, well it was for me, one posts something constructive and you just knew Mr J was going to give the finger or Jizz.
Take (nowun) remote viewing, its a little bit to believe, but then again have you not been sitting playing and whilst the bets are going down you said in your mind its going to be #3, even thou you have nothing on it, then yes in drops the 3. Happenes often but i'm not thinking like nowuns doing so its a lost bet. But i do like the idea sitting there and #'s float in.
I'll put this bit in the remote thread

[winkel]

Steve,

you will get applause from most people here and they act like you want.

Except two of them.

[Azim]

Steve,

Totally agree, it's supposed to be fun.

However, what do you call a person, who goes to the extreme of keeping notes as to who is giving out fingers, likes, etc, etc.

Not naming anyone, but some are just here to ruin the forum.

[RouletteGhost]

Mr j and caleb r sources of negativity. This needs to be discussed

[mogul397]

link:://:.rouletteforum.cc/index.php?topic=18100.0

[Steve]

Mr j and caleb r sources of negativity. This needs to be discussed

Here's how I see these members from a neutral view:

Caleb: good knowledge of roulette and can help people. But he can be an arrogant and condescending asshole - mostly when provoked. Seeing things from anyone who understands the basics of roulette, it can be damn annoying to see the same rubbish systems and false claims, but have honest attempts to help people ignored. This annoyance leads to lost patience, and inevitably being abrupt with people like saying "look, seriously, you have no idea. Here's why you are wrong"..... And what he says is taken the wrong way. But where he goes wrong is he busts peoples balls about being wrong instead of just leaving them alone, to the point of borderline trolling. And this is what gets people most upset. Also naturally people take a stab at him, and his response is to arrogantly wave the facts about roulette in their face. I understand why he does it, but it just stirs the pot - which he knows. How he is on other forums is not my concern. But my view on him here is he can offer valuable input in discussions, but he needs to not bust balls. And he needs to say his piece then let people either take or leave the advice - not constantly bash them with it. He can do some things too sometimes that just provoke people - for his own amusement. But rarely on this forum. Mostly to the "system RRRBRB players" who have attacked him previously. He considers it like teasing monkeys who have no idea. Dont expect to attack him without him responding in some way to annoy you - same with most people.

Ken: Has good intentions, but takes personal attacks way too seriously. Wastes far too much time on what is essentially just shit. Cares too much about what other people say and think. If you get on his bad side, its not so much that he will hold a grudge against you (although he does to some degree). It's more that he puts up his defenses things that you may say are not actually an attack will be considered an attack. Yes sometimes he gets attacked, but his response just invites more attacks and it goes around and around and around.

RG: Also has good intentions. Doesnt like caleb for same reasons he pisses off other people. Doesnt like ken because there's constant back and forth stabs and general bickering. At some times, he can bend the rules himself although not with bad intent - more just from aggravation.

Nobody here has no personal issues of some kind - including myself. And nobody here is a bad person with pure malice intent, although there is the occasional stab at each other that just makes it worse. Just a bit of understanding and respect can go a long way for everyone.

But if there's something I'm missing, bring it up right here to discuss. But remove the emotion and bickering from it. There are various complaints about specific members, but almost always from the same members. So obviously there is bad blood. But to determine if the problem is just people dont like each other, OR rules are being broken, members need to report posts to moderators and then we see exactly what is going on. Still this is not being done. So when people complain about members and arent specific, we mods arent going to know exactly what you're talking about.

[iggiv]

link:s://:.youtube.com/watch?v=Qyclqo_AV2M

[mogul397]

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[mogul397]

Here's how I see these members from a neutral view:

Caleb: good knowledge of roulette and can help people. But he can be an arrogant and condescending asshole - mostly when provoked. Seeing things from anyone who understands the basics of roulette, it can be damn annoying to see the same rubbish systems and false claims, but have honest attempts to help people ignored. This annoyance leads to lost patience, and inevitably being abrupt with people like saying "look, seriously, you have no idea. Here's why you are wrong"..... And what he says is taken the wrong way. But where he goes wrong is he busts peoples balls about being wrong instead of just leaving them alone, to the point of borderline trolling. And this is what gets people most upset. Also naturally people take a stab at him, and his response is to arrogantly wave the facts about roulette in their face. I understand why he does it, but it just stirs the pot - which he knows. How he is on other forums is not my concern. But my view on him here is he can offer valuable input in discussions, but he needs to not bust balls. And he needs to say his piece then let people either take or leave the advice - not constantly bash them with it. He can do some things too sometimes that just provoke people - for his own amusement. But rarely on this forum. Mostly to the "system RRRBRB players" who have attacked him previously. He considers it like teasing monkeys who have no idea. Dont expect to attack him without him responding in some way to annoy you - same with most people.

Ken: Has good intentions, but takes personal attacks way too seriously. Wastes far too much time on what is essentially just shit. Cares too much about what other people say and think. If you get on his bad side, its not so much that he will hold a grudge against you (although he does to some degree). It's more that he puts up his defenses things that you may say are not actually an attack will be considered an attack. Yes sometimes he gets attacked, but his response just invites more attacks and it goes around and around and around.

RG: Also has good intentions. Doesnt like caleb for same reasons he pisses off other people. Doesnt like ken because there's constant back and forth stabs and general bickering. At some times, he can bend the rules himself although not with bad intent - more just from aggravation.

Nobody here has no personal issues of some kind - including myself. And nobody here is a bad person with pure malice intent, although there is the occasional stab at each other that just makes it worse. Just a bit of understanding and respect can go a long way for everyone.

But if there's something I'm missing, bring it up right here to discuss. But remove the emotion and bickering from it. There are various complaints about specific members, but almost always from the same members. So obviously there is bad blood. But to determine if the problem is just people dont like each other, OR rules are being broken, members need to report posts to moderators and then we see exactly what is going on. Still this is not being done. So when people complain about members and arent specific, we mods arent going to know exactly what you're talking about.

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