Guys!! Try not and take roulette as though it's life and death. It's not worth the arguments or stress.
I would go as far to say that 99% of all of us that post here are very fortunate and are indeed probably in the luckiest 1% of the population on the planet.
We can all type away, eat, drink and smoke or whatever. (not to mention the odd bit of gambling now and again) There are loads of people who would dream to be able to live our lives.
I am as guilty as anybody else for arguing and saying things I later regretted on the internet. Most of it is just deflection to mask our own insecurities and a way to blow of steam from our day to day lives. It's important to enjoy the time we spend here relaxing and talking about the game we enjoy.
sermon over.
You are 100% correct. I would add that the root of this problems is society itself, and no individuals in particular. No person is born good or bad, almost all behaviour is the result of the environment that surrounded us the whole life, and this environment is mostly a byproduct of us all as society... At least until we are aware of this, because at that point, you can choose between keeping the old habbits, or to start "reprograming" yourself for more healthy behaviours - changing yourself, thus changing the environment arround you.