Human Behaviour on one A4 sheet of paper

[falkor2k15]

Falkor,
This is the second time I am making this request. I would like to read about your theory of human behavior -- the one that you wrote or typed on a single A4 sheet of paper.

Start a thread about it. This is a serious request.

OK, this is work-in-progress...

I envisage the A4 sheet of paper to look something like this:



So let's start with the demons themselves - at the heart of all human behaviour - that 99% of people have.... what are these "demons" that leads to everyone's behavioral traits?

DEMONS

--Feelings of emptiness
--Feelings of boredom
--Feelings of worthlessness
--Feelings of life having no purpose

The demons are generally worse when people are alone or in a dark room than in somebody else's company. Other times people would prefer to shut themselves away and suffer more by themselves rather than face other people who could either benefit them or make them feel worse - so they can become trapped (more in the "Avoidant" cases; see below). You see the demons cause the traits and lead to different personality types based on the person's defense mechanisms and how they deal with their internal demons:
Avoidant
Borderline
Narcissistic
Psychopath (has more traits than the others)
+ others

The demons are at the center of the person's life and mentality, controlling their entire behaviour, so that they often project a false self/mask, lack identity, have no hobbies, and cannot distract themselves from their negative feelings within. It must be emphasised that the demons are the worst thing in the person's life that they have to constantly deal: similar to the disturbance we get thinking about death and infinite nothingness. And no matter what people do they cannot escape, so they often wear headphones or do something - usually exhibiting a behavioral trait or defense mechanism - in an on-going effort to keep the demons at bay through temporary relief here and there.

Up next: causes, solutions...

[nottophammer]

R U single, with no life skills

[falkor2k15]

CAUSES

in 95% of cases the Demons are caused by an unhappy childhood. Sometimes it could be through a traumatic experience later on in life, at school, or at work, but again: 95% of cases are mostly developed during childhood from around age 2-3, so most of the psyche is formed from infancy. Genes can possibly contribute, but it's definitely more nurture as opposed to nature. What also plays a big part in terms of maintaining the demons or, in a small number of cases - potentially healing them - comes by way of input from the environment, i.e. the local (and to some extent global) culture. 

In childhood the parents or guardians, in a vicious cycle, will impose their own standards, traits and abuses that they had developed from childhood onto the next generation, i.e. their own children. Often parents feel they are justified in their actions in the name of discipline and safety, unaware of how abusive they can come across. Other times they know they are being abusive in an attempt to maintain control - bullies know they are bullying!

Children who develop demons are those who failed to have their emotional needs satisfied by their parents during childhood, and lacked freedom and stimulation in some way, stopping them from developing a happy conscience and normal up bringing. Again, the abuse is based on a whole heap of traits that could be psychological or physical, including emotional blackmail and gaslighting. Since the children are dependent on their parents till age 16-18, when they might try to leave home or rebel, they are forced to undergo years of torment. And the parents will usually do everything that can to stop their children becoming independent, so that they can continue to use them for own selfish agenda: relieving their own demons via the ego. Through witnessing/suffering abuse and slavery - often of a psychological and sinister nature - the children become scared and develop emotional wounds from blocking out negative emotions that usually scar them for life. And every time a new wound is inflicted a new trait may be born in the victim and the demons are worsened. A lot of the traits are formed as part of defense mechanisms used to deal with the abuse suffered at the hands of the previous generation.

The main trait of the demon possessed person is their self-importance, i.e. their ego. Through either excessive praise as a child (perhaps with the intention of making them do well at school or face the consequences) or through the abusive damage done to them that scarred the person's sense of worth and self-esteem, the demoniac will seek praise and respect from those around them to provide supply or temporary relief, and make them feel good about themselves for a short while. They may offer to help an old lady across the street or be the first to step forward when somebody needs help with luggage - simply to get a good feeling inside. The point here is that the group plays a big part in terms of influencing them over the long term, including what will gain them respect through meeting cultural expectations and agreeing with mainstream views via media, so as not to look/feel inadequate like when they were children faced with ridicule/abuse from the likes of their parents. They want to do everything to avoid that - since if it happens they can be pained to the point of suicide or driven to seek revenge in some extreme and sophisticated way that can provide greatest relief, albeit always temporary, to their internal demons - made worse by an "injury" to the ego.

Next up: Solutions (Demoniac vs. the Victim)

[falkor2k15]

R U single, with no life skills

Above is an example of a behavioral trait exhibited by notto - most likely because he's read my previous paragraphs and been made aware of the demons that nobody wants to talk about or face. So his defense mechanism/trait is to try to "devalue" me with his comments and make himself feel better after reading what many may find uncomfortable and disturbing.

[Turner]

Its like Dante's inferno lol
Falkor...you kill me (metaphorically)

[nottophammer]

Do you live in London, i'll meet you at Aspers in Westfield, have a beer and play some roulette and see if you can exorcise my demons

[falkor2k15]

Westfield

Shepherd's Bush or Stratford? I'll let you know after I've got a winning system... thanks.

[nottophammer]

Stratford.
I dont want your winning system, i know one that wins, i could show you if you'd turn up

[RouletteGhost]

Thumbs up if you laughed

[falkor2k15]

Stratford.
I dont want your winning system, i know one that wins, i could show you if you'd turn up

I'll pm you in a couple of weeks once the girlfriend has returned from holiday and my work appraisal is out of the way, etc. We can then arrange a time that suits you? If you win then you buy the drinks, otherwise I'll have to buy them...

[nottophammer]

This is a no brainer, but as your a math genius, which 2 column's would you use?
Me 2+3, but why should 2+3 be better than 1+2 or1+3, there still just spread out around the ring.Would you say the layout of 2+3 is the best thou?



I'd have a cup of tea, thanks

[falkor2k15]

Dunno mate... I got a Masters in cooking curry and a PhD in Kung Fu films, but when it comes to Maths I'm just a bum... I might have a method that could find out the answer, but I am still on that journey/quest to get a deeper understanding of how random behaves besides humans... so I look forward to seeing you demonstrate!

[nottophammer]

You'll wait a long time for a demonstration from me, you'll probably catch that train quicker

[nottophammer]

Train coming in.
3+2
To me #12 to #15 is a block of 2&3 with the poxy zero, opposite is #36 to #23, another block. Now back to #12-#15 block, as we head away we have 2,#'s from C-1, then we have C2&3 twice,29,18 & 21,2. then 1,2,1 25,17,34 otherside 1,3,1,  22,9,31. Then 2 C-2's 14,20 otherside 2C-3's 6,27. Theres a couple more but you can see

But why it would be better than the other combo's, who knows.
It was just RG talks of columns on 00 wheel, why not the euro wheel?

[DoctorSudoku]

CAUSES

in 95% of cases the Demons are caused by an unhappy childhood. Sometimes it could be through a traumatic experience later on in life, at school, or at work, but again: 95% of cases are mostly developed during childhood from around age 2-3, so most of the psyche is formed from infancy. Genes can possibly contribute, but it's definitely more nurture as opposed to nature. What also plays a big part in terms of maintaining the demons or, in a small number of cases - potentially healing them - comes by way of input from the environment, i.e. the local (and to some extent global) culture. 

First, thanks for posting your theory.

Since you blame so much on events of childhood, especially childhood emotional trauma, you are a Freudian in that sense.

One point I would disagree with you is the nature versus nurture debate. I think nowadays, because of cultural reasons, we tend to devalue the "nature" part of it vis-a-vis the "nurture" part -- I think genes play as important a role (or greater) than the environmental factors.

Anyway, this is fascinating stuff. Hope the thread stays on topic (as compared to the flat earth one).